I get asked ALL THE TIME, “Are you going to be offering this again?” In other words, there’s something in my offer or invite that is TUGGING at their soul. They want it. They desire it. They feel it’s for them.
But they
as a matter of habit,
put it off.
For later, of course.
Promising themselves “next time.”
NEXT time,
for sure,
they’ll be there,
they’ll do that,
they’ll get what they need.
Next time. Someday. Just Not today.
(Always failing to see the pattern here,
never allowing themselves to acknowledge
JUST how many times
they’ve done this EXACT dance before…
only to KEEP spinning and KEEP “next timing” life
until it, well… ends.)
Instead of saying YES
to their soul,
to their call,
to their next step….
They ASSURE themselves
— again–
that while NOW is not the right time,
#ofcourse
some future time
— which is undefined, but definitely “NOT NOW” —
will be THEIR time.
Here’s the commonality amongst Next Time-ers:
Next time NEVER comes.
because when next time comes,
there will be the same
(or new, but usually the same)
reasons to put it off again…
“legit” reasons to say NOT NOW
again
to their soul, their call, their purpose work.
The commonality is that they are ALWAYS willing to put off until “next time,” what is SCREAMING to their soul today.
Note from my soul to yours:
Today’s inspiration,
is for TODAY.
And listen…
NOW, today..
is never a convenient time to go all in.
Today has:
Kid stuff.
Money stuff.
Relationship stuff.
TODAY has all of these things.
And let me save you the suspense,
so does tomorrow.
So does next time!
This is why I have people who I have invited to join Women Who WOW (at a “whopping” $697 per year) who are going to join “soon.” They’re “gonna hustle!!” and join when they have the money. “They’ll be there!” they exclaim!
But despite the changes to their brand, the different businesses they start, the different approaches they take on social media…. they never show up,
except for the free stuff,
of course.
Many are coaches or consultants themselves.
They don’t see the IRONY in never INVESTING in coaching.
They don’t see the IRONY in getting FREE advice from other people on how to sell.
They don’t see the PLAIN AS DAY MIRROR the market place has become for them.
They keep saying NO to what they KNOW they want and need. (You know…. because “next time.”) And…..
no surprise here…..
they keep hearing from people who ALSO keep saying NO to what they know they need, vowing “next time.”
They keep going for the FREE stuff…
and… of course,
so do their own people.
So, it’s no surprise that they didn’t have the money in 2017, or 2018… and still don’t have the money thing figured out in 2019.
WHY????
I think we can ALL agree that three years is an AWFULLY adequate time to figure out how to turn a profit in your business, right??????
But, they never decided.
They never HARNESSED
and LEVERAGED
the ONLY power we have…
which is the NOW.
Indecision
and waiting
are hallmarks of failure and mediocrity.
If you want to STOP spinning your wheels,
and START actually living the life and business you want,
you don’t have to join Women Who WOW,
but you DO have to start saying YES
to the TUGS you feel in your soul….
You DO have to forego “next time”
and make the commitment TODAY.
