There’s a ton of interest in Women Who WOW right now. Scheduling small group meetings with the top producers for top shows (like Dr. Oz, Rachael Ray, Tamron Hall Show, Wendy Williams, etc.) tends to have that affect on a business. (Message me FAST if you want IN on these small group pitch opportunities!)
But also… there’s just something afoot.
Something happening…
with women entrepreneurs,
who are refusing to settle,
but also refusing to “suit up” and put on a mask in order to succeed.
There’s a growing TRIBE of DRIVEN women
who are standing up, standing out and REFUSING to accept less than what their SOUL knows they were born for.
And so, naturally,
they are finding Women Who WOW….
THE place for them.
Naturally, they “somehow” find my page,
naturally, they say I just “showed up on their feed”
naturally, they find their way here,
where their drive, their heart, their purpose, their WEIRDNESS, their stubbornness…
is not just “accepted,”
but applauded.
The more defiant they become about their goals,
and about being EVER MORE FULLY themselves
as they bring these goals into full fruition,
the more they TUNE IN to the frequency of THIS page. At THIS frequency, it’d be hard NOT to end up here.
So, as I respond to more and more emails and Facebook messages about WOW, I am — very uncharacteristically — being drawn into thoughts about people who landed here, stayed a while and the Women Who WOW Way did NOT help them create the success they deserve.
Why didn’t it work….. for THEM?
Because SOME actually do the work,
but they don’t see the results
that so many others are seeing, enjoying and making their new normal.
WHAT gives???
So, here I am this morning,
diving deep into what these former Women Who WOW members have in common… not in an effort to change what **I** do, but in an effort to more clearly call out those I CAN help create HUGE shifts with… and also, send the others, elsewhere.
So, here’s what I came up with.
✅ IF YOU VIEW YOUR BUSINESS AS “JUST A BUSINESS” — separate from yourself — you will find The Women Who WOW way too vulnerable, too focused on developing YOU, too uncomfortable.
While we focus A LOT of leveraging your expertise and time AWAY from a “hour for dollar” exchange, truly successful women who WOW members have a DEEP SEEDED DESIRE / NEED to do more than that… to fully build their business around themselves. We don’t see business as “just” something we DO for money. We see it as an extension of our purpose, passion and skills. We see it as an outlet. We feel CALLED, purpose driven and RESPONSIBLE for bringing our goals to life.
But there are some who land here because we DO have solid trainings — and multiple swipe-able examples — of simple funnels, offers, and marketing suave than can bring (and has brought) in multiple six-figures on repeat. So, they come for the “hard core marketing stuff.”
To be transparent, they come because they are a reflection of an earlier version of me. I am STILL practical to a FAULT. I am ALL about the marketing and selling fundamentals, and it’s THESE principles that the REST of my business hangs upon, but…
if you have NO burning desire to infuse your offers, your pricing, your marketing and your selling with MORE of your OWN unique magic, you’ll tire of us quickly.
BUT, there are a ton of OTHER groups that will keep you constantly abreast on every single change the digital marketing gods make. There are other groups who can help you constantly tweak your headline or deliverables to create a 1% or 2% increase in conversion on your existing offer. I belong to a few of these groups myself, to keep my marketing edge SHARP AF.
But, I never allow the techniques
to eclipse my HEART and my MAGIC,
not in my message,
not in my offers,
not in anything.
So, if you aren’t PASSIONATE about building a business — and income, of course — entirely on your own terms, you may land here, but you won’t be a “lifer.”
✅ IF YOU RESIST THE REALITY OF CAUSE AND EFFECT, you may be frustrated here. There are some who will ACCEPT clients or patients when they come, but they will not ACCEPT their role as the CREATOR of clients.
And this is a big growth area.
Because when you see yourself as the CREATOR of your current circumstances, you don’t just get to bask in the glory of great times. You ALSO must accept that you’re responsible for the lean times as well.
Cause & Effect.
The effect is the goal.
The cause is YOU.
Like gravity, this is a universal truth…
When you embrace it, it works FOR you.
BUT if you deny it,
if you insist on seeing yourself as the EXCEPTION to this universal truth,
it will ALWAYS work against you.
So, if you are NOT seeing the EFFECT you want in business,
the Women Who WOW Way demands you look in the mirror (often through journaling) to ask yourself, what YOU can do to CAUSE that effect to come to life in your world!
Many resist this.
And they will tire of me asking them
“Given all that is going on, what are you willing to create?”
Related side note: I never accept invites to pity parties, because I LOVE our members. I will show up, but ONLY on the sidewalk. I will ALWAYS be there cheering YOU ON, reminding you of YOUR power to change your circumstances, but my RESPECT for you will not allow me inside the pity party itself. But, listen carefully. Over all of the placating and understanding and “don’t worry about it” within the pity party itself… you will hear my voice, woman. I’ll be the one reminding you of YOUR power, of YOUR potential. I will not stop cheering for you. But I will never exchange respect for pity.
✅ IF YOUR “PERSONAL PRIDE” IS OKAY WITH YOU BEING FULLY FINANCIALLY DEPENDENT ON SOMEONE — OR SOMETHING — ELSE, YOU MAY FIND WOW A BIT OF A CHORE.
I do hear from women who WANT to fully support themselves or their families with their purpose work. Independence is a cool goal and one they DO think about, but when it comes down to it…. when they look in the mirror, they’re truly OKAY being fully — or nearly — dependent.
If you are OKAY with that,
I am okay with that for you.
To each their own.
BUT I think you will find my whole “self-reliance” vibe an irritant to your underlying desire to be fully independent. And we ALL have that underlying desire.
Not all of us are willing to do what it takes,
NO MATTER what it takes
for AS LONG as it takes,
to make it happen, though.
So, that’s that.
These are the THREE “indicators” that The Women Who WOW Way may not be your long term, lifetime solution to being all the things, doing all the things, becoming ALL you were meant to be.
If you have any questions, though… message me. I LOVE talking to other women entrepreneurs.