To be clear, this message is to women entrepreneurs who are NOT Women Who WOW members. The ones watching the fire, standing close, but not fully committing, the ones liking and sharing my posts, the ones who think about — or talk about– joining (or re-joining) WOW “one day.” To you, YES…
you absolutely belong.
But your excuses don’t.
There’s no place for them here.
Women Who WOW is where YOUR excuses,
even and especially the “noble” ones
(you know,
the ones that you’ve dressed up
to look like “priority” or “timing” or “flow” or “wisdom”)
come to die.
You said you want it.
ALL of it.
You want the success, the pride, the money..
You want the freedom and the thrill of accomplishment
and maybe even the “EFF YOU” revenge of “making it.”
You want to be PROUD of your business, your creations, your lifestyle.
You want to retire your husband, or at least make it possible for him to retire.
You want to travel first class,
not sweat those luxury purchases,
buy the handbag,
fund the ministry,
keep your college kids from drowning in debt.
And mainly,
you want to MAKE THIS HAPPEN
because you said you would,
because you know you CAN,
and because you’ve had so many “false starts”
already… making bold proclamations with absolute intention…
but — you don’t know why —
It never seems to actually HAPPEN,
at least for you,
at least not now,
at least not yet.
Yes, you belong here.
I’m HONORED and glad that you’re here.
But if you’re not HUNGRY for the hard core, unfiltered truth (which is all I serve up here….) you may want to bow out of this post NOW… before it’s too late…
Because the thing with excuses,
especially the ones that are “true,” is this:
Once they’re exposed to the REAL truth,
they start screaming to save themselves.
They often urge you to be mad at the person exposing them. (me)
Because once exposed,
you’ll forever see them for what they are:
friendly, feel-good little dream killers.
They appear friendly because they protect your ego… they keep promising you “later” and “tomorrow” so you feel BETTER about bowing out on your goals…. again. Not “giving up,” right??? Just putting YOUR success off to another day, again. Day by day, choosing the comfort zone of your excuses…
“Soon,” you promise yourself.
“One day,” you proclaim.
“Not now, but when X happens,” you assure your goals.
The thing is, when you say you want it…
ALL of it,
on your terms,
when you tell me (and your market with those impressive posts and memes and articles you share)
that you are GOING ALL IN,
that you are HERE TO RULE
that you are NOT BACKING DOWN,
that you are BORN FOR MORE,
I believe you.
And you believe you.
But here’s what happens, and why you keep going in circles in your business. Experiencing the heartbreaking cycle of seeing the vision, knowing it IS yours and CAN BE yours, proclaiming your commitment… and then backing down… never “giving up,” of course, because you’re always “gonna.”
One day.
What happens is this…
you hit a rough spot.
Money becomes tight.
Or life becomes hectic.
Or both.
Or you get offended, hurt, discouraged by the lack of response from your market. And you think it “means something.” So you push pause, and get all “spiritual” on me. 
You start talking about “flow” and timing…
you start why the “guides” have something else in mind for you, or even God’s timing.
As if EVERY great thing you’re insanely proud of didn’t take some SWEAT, some HUSTLE and some PUSH baby!! You see, when you hit that wall, when you are disappointed, discouraged, and distracted….
that is when you PROVE WHO YOU ARE.
THAT is the very moment when your business goals need you to STAND UP FOR THEM. That is when the WARRIOR in you awakens and makes you proud.
But only if you keep going.
So, yeah…
you belong here.
And I believe you.
But I need YOU to believe you.
I need you to stop looking for the exit ramp before you even hit your stride.
Actually, I don’t need anything from you.
YOU need these things from you.
Life is exhilarating on the other side of your excuses.
And I am here for you.
I am HERE to hold space for you,
to cheer you on,
to stand behind you so you CAN NOT turn back,
to hold your hand,
to challenge your thinking,
to remind YOU
of who you ARE…
but I can’t do that without your permission. I can’t do that in a one-way communication of your watching my videos or reading my posts.
I can ONLY do that within the FIRE
that IS Women Who WOW.
THAT is where you’ll find me
making way for women like you and me.
making WAR on excuses that come to seek, kill and destroy OUR purpose, our passion and our dreams.
And creating SUCCESS that is a CuSTOM fit…
for you.
The fee to join us is DELIBERATELY not prohibitive. And the only thing you have to LOSE by joining us is your current reality, your current shame of not being “there” yet, your frustration with yourself, your resentment of others who are killing it!
ALL of this is replaced here,
with the PRIDE that can’t be bought,
and is fueled by YOU
bringing hONEST effort
to the table
day in and day out…
laying down a hustle habit,
that is WORTHY of your goals.
Message me about joining the PREMIER coaching and mentoring platform for women who aren’t mucking around.
