(Also, why referrals constantly come into WOW despite me “forgetting” to ask for them.)
You know how in Fight Club, members would point to a bruise and say, “Look, dude… I’m a member!” Hold that scenario in your mind for a minute.
Because I want to talk about Women Who WOW… and how I –how the WORLD — can tell the members from those who SHOULD be members, but aren’t.
I can easily recognize those who know, who feel, who recognize that they belong within Women Who WOW, even though they never pull the trigger to join. There’s a certain “look” to those who RESONATE with what they see here (newsflash: not everyone does), who SEE this page and don’t turn away, but also… don’t make the leap to join us.
These women who KNOW,
but keep “waiting” to join
— you know, next time,
next year,
next business,
next big client —
are EASY to spot.
Their eyebrows are SINGED by the flame.
They came close,
recognized their SPIRIT being reflected back to them,
KNEW that WE were “their people,”
they click to join,
and then…
they disappear.
They came close enough to be IMPACTED by the flame, but they didn’t become the flame. They shrunk back into “watch” mode, into the spectator section DESPITE knowing they were born to take the stage.
And so in addition to the singed eyebrows,
there’s also a heaviness…
that comes with KNOWING and not DOING.
There’s an energetic CLOUD over you
when you scream HELL YES!,
when you pump your fist in the air and declare
THIS IS ME,
but then,
disappear without going deeper.
Occasionally when people say, “Tell me about joining. I AM a Woman Who WOWs. I’m so glad I found you! I resonated with every word. Just tell me what I need to do to join! I am so in!” but do not join, I ask them if they have any questions…
But they don’t.
They KNOW all they need to know.
And the REAL reason they didn’t join,
is that they simply didn’t back themselves,
again.
As has become their habit.
It’s painful…
to them.
They promise themselves “later,”
because the TRUTH that later, they’ll say “later” again,
is too much pain to bear.
To you, I want you to know I see you.
Don’t retreat again.
Hang around.
Keep coming back DESPITE the singed eyebrows.
Allow OUR fire to keep you warm until you’re willing to BECOME the fire with us.
My HOPE is that you do….
Your destiny is NOT going to create itself.
Your calling is NOT going to go away,
it will KEEP weighing on you,
that heaviness
will not go away because
it’s a reminder that
you that you WERE born for greatness…
We will be here when you’re FINALLY ready to break your “waiting” habit and go ALL in on being, doing and having all you are meant to be, do and have. The next step is yours.
Contrast that with our members.
THEY are also easy to spot.
They are the ones who are dreaming AND doing.
They are the bold ones,
charging what their worth,
firing disrespectful clients,
commanding attention,
leading their industry, and
taking the stage every day with their expertise.
And the reason that referrals KEEP coming in to WOW isn’t because I’ve incentivized members to “spread the word.” It’s because people NOTICE a change in members.
They notice their messaging is bolder, more consistent.
They notice a “certain confidence” in their stance.
They notice their brand is being UPLEVELED.
They notice that they walk, talk and act with more certainty. They notice a PEACE that is more steady.
They notice increased levels of success.
They notice a change in CONVERSATION. Members are discussing BIG ideas vs. petty irritations. They notice a change in focus…. intention… direction.
And so friends, acquaintances, networking colleagues NOTiCE a change in our members. A visible, palpable, undeniable change as members step — more fully every day — into their OWN purpose. And they ask, “What’s going on?”
It’s in THESE conversations that Women Who WOW is most often introduced.
It’s like Fight Club, but in reverse. Those OUTSIDE are bruised, limping, struggling, carrying the HEAVINESS of their soul’s purpose, still un-actioned…
and those inside are thriving, growing, taking intentional step after intentional step.. .despite any and ALL circumstances. INSPIRING others, LEADING their industry, and ALL while enjoying the beautiful chaos that is inherent in doing it ENTIRELY on their own terms.
If you are READY to become the fire,
message me.
Even if you’ve messaged me before.
Let’s start fresh.
I’m READY to meet the NEW you,
the REAL you.
I’m ready to get intimate with that dream you KNOW is yours but are almost intimidated to say it out loud.
xoxo
Michelle
