On Tuesday night, I was interviewed briefly for a live launch selling a program by one of my mentors. It was an honor to be part of it and I’ll post the link to the replay in the comments below. BUT, in that interview, I was asked about the PSYCHOGRAPHICS of the women I invite into Women Who WOW.
The term “lady balls” may or may not have been used. There MAY have been a visual of us carting such lady balls around in a wheel barrel. BUT the point that I hope people really took home was the fact that the TRULY successful do not WAIT to be crowned, christened, named, or otherwise “certified.” We don’t WAIT on others to fix something, create something, make something happen.
In fact, WAITING in general…
IS WHAT WE SUCK AT.
Women who WOW do NOT wait well.
We also do NOT hand over the REIGNS to our business, life, fitness, decisions, relationships, happiness, future, health or any other thing… waiting for someone else — anyone else — to make it happen.
Oh no,
when the game is on the line and 1.8 seconds is left on the clock,
I INSIST on having the ball.
Here is the truth,
THE key
to success in ANY AREA OF LIFE OR BIZ,
which the successful have embraced without apology:
YOU WILL CONTINUE TO BE _____________________
AS LONG AS YOU DEPEND ON OTHERS
TO MAKE YOU __________________.
Fill in these blanks with whatever you desire.
YOU WILL CONTINUE TO BE POOR
AS LONG AS YOU DEPEND ON OTHERS
TO MAKE YOU RICH.
YOU WILL CONTINUE TO BE SICK
AS LONG AS YOU DEPEND ON OTHERS
TO MAKE YOU HEALTHY.
YOU WILL CONTINUE TO BE UNSAFE
AS LONG AS YOU DEPEND ON OTHERS
TO MAKE YOU SAFE.
YOU WILL CONTINUE TO BE INSECURE
AS LONG AS YOU DEPEND ON OTHERS
TO MAKE YOU CONFIDENT.
YOU WILL CONTINUE TO BE UNHAPPY
AS LONG AS YOU DEPEND ON OTHERS
TO MAKE YOU HAPPY.
Autonomy.
It matters.
Self-reliance,
a WiLLINGNESS
dare I say a PREFERENCE for betting on yourself.
matters.
THIS is the key to success in ANY area.
In fact, the degree to which you BLAME someone else, something else for ANY circumstance, is the exact DEGREE you hand over your power to fix it.
And I don’t hand over my power.
EVER.
So I will ALWAYS blame myself.
I will ALWAYS bet on myself.
I will ALWAYS take full responsibility for the things I want, for my life, for my success.
The truth is,
masterminds matter, as do mentors.
I invest heavily in such things and recommend you do as well.
I would NOT be without them.
BUT, success DEMANDS independent thinking AND action. Success DEMANDS a high degree of personal responsibility for any and ALL circumstances.
And this is why so many give up on true success. Because they prefer a good excuse to the ABSOLUTE VULNERABILITY of pursuing achievement. They’ll AT LEAST accept excuses over accomplishment.
And they are willing to WAIT on someone else to hand it to them, someone to make it EASY on them, someone to christen “NOW” as the right time.
P.S. Now is ALWAYS the right time. Now is the ONLY time.
But the truly successful began with the UNAPOLOGETIC DECISION to self-govern, the COURAGEOUS HEART to bet on themselves, the RUTHLESS DETERMINATION to make things happen….
by themselves
If necessary.
And this is OFTEN necessary.
Success CAN be lonely for this reason. (So choose your circle carefully.) If you’d like to talk further about going ALL IN On that dream of yours, on creating the LIFE you want on your own terms, message me.
Women Who WOW is a place for you to BEGIN, BELONG & BECOME. But be forewarned: I hold YOU fully responsible for creating the success you imagine.
I won’t let you forget.
I won’t let you SHIRK.
I won’t let you drown in excuses.
There’s nothing for you in a pool of delays and blame and excuses. But EVERYTHING you want is waiting on you to FINALLY DECIDE & DECLARE that it is UP to you.
Let’s do this woman…
Just because we can.
Here’s to US…
