For the uninformed, Dr. Google defines an average sized penis as just over 3 1/2 inches flaccid. So, NOT EXACTLY brag worthy. But THIS man, who I have the distinct pleasure of introducing you to in a minute, actually brags, in writing, about this. He puts it in headlines like this one:
“GQ calls me “the world’s greatest sex hacker” and Playboy says I’m “a personal trainer for _____[another name for vagina]_______ “, but I’m also a formerly sexually insecure Asian immigrant with an average-sized ____[another name for penis]_____.”
From a marketing perspective, it doesn’t get better than this headline. FIRST, he’s using social proof by noting that HE has been discussed in both GQ magazine AND in Playboy. THIS is what I call vanity metrics.
Vanity metrics are the ones that look cool but really don’t matter. Like the woman who — twice now — has reached out to me (a complete stranger except for a facebook connection) to pay her rent DESPITE her having 448K followers on Instagram and selling a course, “how to make money on instagram.” YET, she’s messaging me on Facebook to help her make rent.
Vanity metrics.
They look and sound good.
And you SHOULD get them.
But I have met WAY TOO MANY people who have “impressive” metrics who make WAY TOO LITTLE money.
This doesn’t mean I don’t ALSO use vanity metrics in my own business. I DO post the pictures of me and a (much younger) Gary V. I do “mention” from the stage about being on Good Morning America weekend. I make a point to be on certain stages that up my own credibility.
BUT … this is not REALLY what people care about. So, let’s get back to this average sized penis…
THIS is his SELLING metric, the one that matters to his market, which is defined as: Men who want to “satisfy her like never before.”
Think of it. If GQ and Playboy were bragging about this Asian with a MONSTER penis, it would direct men to a Penile Enlargement ad instead of this sex hacker’s “training videos,” which — not coincidentally — is what he sells. If he bragged about a ginormous penis, EVERY READER would assume he was so good in bed because he was extremely well equipped.
So, he REMOVES that excuse in the minds of his market. He SELLS the fact that HE is this World Class Sex Hacker even with an average sized penis…
The message is an important one: “YOU — or your husband — could rock her world too!”
It’s why I am constantly reminding people of my AVERAGE-ness. It’s why I “brag” about starting this little venture of mine with $50… taken out of the $213 I had in savings. It’s why I “brag” about being low tech.
The message? If **I** can do this…
create this…
earn this…
STILL BE HERE AFTER 20+ years…
ANYONE
literally anyone
can do this.
If I can do it while boot strapping,
if I can be an infopreneur
a membership site owner
without affiliates,
without paid ads,
without paying to play in the media,
and WHILE being SO poorly funded…
ANYONE CAN DO IT.
Vanity Metrics are important and fun.
BUT it’s the SELLING metrics that matter,
the ones that DEMONSTRATE
— often in stories or pictures–
that YOU are not super-gifted or hyper-lucky….
Because the FIRST thing your people need to FEEL before they buy… is the HOPE that they can experience the results you’re promising them.
Without hope, they will not spend.
Bottom line: This guy’s average sized penis gives men all over the world hope.
Also, if you want to meet him… you COULD pay him $1000 per hour to be your sex coach. ORRRR… you could show up for free on December 3rd at 9 PM EST for a private webinar where this man will share his TOP THREE sex hacks. (Just to be clear, while there WILL — I think — be a “puppet” of a vulva, there will be no nudity or sex on the webinar. It’s not porn. It’s sex education and — let’s face it — no one ever regrets being great in bed. Get details here: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/sexhacks/
Being great at sex
and being great at marketing
have SO MUCH in common.
But the one commonality — that will change your life– is that they are BOTH skills that can be taught and learned. If you are ready to GET GOOD at marketing, so that you can CREATE INCOME on demand, let’s have a conversation.
Message me and we’ll set something up.
