If you’ve been around the online marketing space for 90 seconds or more, you’ve run into Surrender Sally… the manifestation guru who tells you to write down your goals and “surrender them as done.”
Some will even remind you to SURRENDER daily.
But, no one tells you HOW to surrender,
what surrender REALLY looks like, and therefore, way too few people are actually experiencing the power and peace (and REAL LIFE, IN THIS REALITY, IN YOUR BANK ACCOUNT) profit inherent in TRUE surrender.
Why does no one talk about this SIDE of the surrender coin? Because it’s inconvenient.
Because the TRUTH of surrender is often a VERY unwelcome suggestion.
Because the core of daily surrender…
well, let’s just say it’s “out of fashion.”
Still works,
but out of fashion.
Let me explain.
There are two sides of the surrender coin.
🙏🏻 The first part of surrender is what is most discussed. It is the act of “surrendering your goals as done.” 🙏🏻
In my world view, this is allowing God to be God… lifting my hands, my goals, my hopes, my dreams and giving them to God. Going to the throne room of the King of Kings and making my petition known…
And then acknowledging… that I want HIS will over my own.
Other world views may “surrender to the universe,” and acknowledge “this (their goals) or something better.”
This first part of surrender is a (POWERFUL) act of detachment and surrender.
But it is only the first PART of surrender.
It is only the WORDS and INTENTION of surrender.
It is the “giving up” of surrender…
giving up all the stress, all the anxiety, all the fretting over a certain goal or outcome.
So far so good.
But the second,
dare I say MOST IMPORTANT
part of surrender…
is that of giving IN.
💪🏼The most important part of surrender is giving IN to the goal or outcome…. surrendering INTO your part of making that goal or outcome a reality… giving IN to the work…. giving yourself OVER to what this goal or outcome is and has been requiring of you all this time.
Do you ever think about that?
Do you EVER consider that maybe the reason you keep learning the same lesson over and over and over again is because you never gave IN to doing your part?
Do you ever think that MAYBE (just maybe) that elusive goal is elusive because you keep going it over to God, but never give IN to being the person for whom that goal is a normal, natural reality?
Maybe you’ve given your goals to God.
But have you GIVEN IN to your goals?
Maybe they’re weighing on you so heavily because they’re waiting on you to “cry uncle,” to finally give in and do YOUR Part?
Woman, we live in a world
and are pursuing goals
that require us to SHOW UP FULLY.
To surrender in ACTION
as well as in INTENTION.
Action is the gentlest form of surrender.
A laying down of excuses and promises of “next time,”
a laying down of the shame and blame you’ve been carrying for why you don’t have that, earn that, do that, or haven’t become that YET…
A laying down of stubborn inaction because you’re not sure what to do…
A laying down of the NEED to know and guarantee EVERYTHING before you take today’s steps..
Yesterday, American’s celebrated the birth of our nation,
and the surrender of our adversary.
But the British didn’t just “surrender” in their hearts.
They also surrendered in action…
signed agreements,
laid down their weapons,
packed up their stuff,
and started marching out of Yorktown.
Surrender in intention, YES…
but also,
surrender in ACTION.
With THIS view of active surrender,
with this concept of GIVING IN to the work your goals need you to do,
what would surrender look like for you?
What would you need to say YES to?
What would you need to say NO to?
What would you need to do differently?
What would surrender have you doing daily?
What action or decision does surrender require of you right now?
What would TRUE surrender
require of YOU?
P.S. Have you heard??? About the annual media event I co-host in New York City? Have you been watching and promising yourself “next year?”
You know the event… the one that brings you face to face, elbow to elbow, eye to eye with the top decision makers for the top media outlets in the country? To be clear, I’m talking about THESE outlets:
👉CNN Business
👉Fox News Edge
👉Dr. Oz (THE top producer for Dr. Oz.)
👉Rachael Ray (THE top producer for Rachael Ray)
👉 The Tamron Hall Daytime Talk Show launching 9/9/19
👉CNN Special Projects (THE producer who is planning these segments)
👉Entrepreneur Magazine (THE editor-in-chief, of course… PLUS the woman in charge of the women’s column on Entrepreneur.com)
👉Forbes Magazine
👉The Wendy Williams Show (THE TOP producer here…)
👉Fox Business, and more!! (Above outlets already confirmed… more outlets being secured as we speak!!)
If you’ve been promising yourself “next time,”
or maybe silently thinking
“I know I need to be in that room…”
THIS year is your Year.
Why?????
Because we will NEVER be in this news cycle again.
💥The world is more open now than ever before to solutions that are outside the box. 💥There’s ongoing and increasing debate regarding our right to choose our health care approach: vaccines, cancer, the right to try solutions, and more. 💥 There’s a HUGE opening for a new voice on jobs, vocations, college and — most poignantly — the choice to forego college and focus on a trade or entrepreneurial pursuits. 💥 There’s NEVER been more focus on women’s empowerment and the world of feminism — now very splintered — needs a new voice. 💥 There’s never been MORE focus on alternative living arrangements, sparked by GLOBAL conversations about “tidying up” and the “tiny home” movement. 💥 There’s a DEEP COLLECTIVE desire for and focus on and ACCEPTANCE of new “modalities” for personal, corporate, and physical change.
You don’t want to waste time “creating news.”
You want to HIJACK it…
enter the conversations already being had,
and be the voice of reason for your industry.
I don’t know what we’ll be talking about in 2020, but it will be election year, making the media an entirely different landscape to navigate.
Better to get in NOW. Message me with your questions, hesitations, WHATEVER. Before the last remaining seats for this 25-person event are gone.
