(Also: The entrepreneurial version of “Always the bridesmaid, never the bride.” lol…)
If you think about how you’ve been feeling about your life… about your business… about your body…. about your potential and you are NOT happy with it… keep reading. First, I will piss you off. But then, maybe…
just maybe,
if you’re WILLING
I’ll wake you up.
What if you wasted your entire life this way? Pausing… settling…. feeling JEALOUS — or even ANGRY, BITTER– about another woman’s success because of your OWN lack of success…. Paying dues (????)… Paying bills…. Feeling shame about your circumstances and lack…. feeling and believing yourself to be incredibly IMPOTENT to create the results, the life, the legacy you want.
WHAT IF YOUR ENTIRE LIFE WENT BY AND NONE OF THIS EVER CHANGED?
What if you KEPT perpetually struggling in the same way you’re struggling now? What if you ALWAYS saw others succeeding, pursuing, WINNING, but — despite what you SEE as your own MONUMENTAL effort — you’re always the one “not there yet”? This is the “always the bridesmaid, never the bride” story, applied to being an entrepreneur.
And
it
is
Heartbreaking.
(Not ONLY have I lived there (until I WOKE THE HECK UP!!)
but I see too many living there right now.
In waiting.
In wanting.
In BITTER RESENTMENT (& judgement) of others who are living the way they want to live.
In angst.
In defeat.
And never considering JUST HOW LONG they’ve tolerated this way of living. Never stopping to DECIDE & DECLARE that they were born for MORE and that they were DONE settling.
I mean, it’s one thing to have a year go by where you didn’t hit the BIG goals you set for yourself. The financial goals, body goals or relationship goals that went un-met. I can live with that. I HAVE lived with that.
It was THE MOMENT I looked back and realized that the YEAR goals I set for 2008 STILL hadn’t been met in 2012, well…. I started to question:
WHAT IF THESE GOALS
INTENDED TO BE ACCOMPLISHED IN ONE YEAR,
NEVER MATERIALIZED AT ALL????
Gulp.
The Bible says that hope deferred makes the heart sick.
SICK indeed.
The truth is, many of us have been weak and anemic in our actions… and even, in terms of our desire. Dumbing our effort AND our desire down to mediocre at best.
Even our DESIRE is so weak that we are perpetually DISTRACTED by all manner of things over which we have no control. OH, and these distractions have us ANGRY… They have us performing temper tantrums and name calling IN PUBLIC… all while pretending to be professionals, lol…
Look, if you are in waiting and wanting STILL….
STOP waiting for the knight in shining armor.
Newsflash: SHINY armor means it has NEVER been in a fight. I prefer my own armor to be smudged, chinked and maybe even stained.
STOP wondering what’s going on.
I’ll tell you like my coach told me,
“No one is coming.
It’s up to you.”
If you want what you’ve never had,
you have to be willing to DO what you’ve never DONE.
And if you’re a fair-weathered goal slayer,
you’ll never make it.
YOUR goals
the big ones,
will be achieved when you suit up REGARDLESS of circumstance, regardless of whether you show up ALONE and feeling BLAH or amped up and with the support of your friends.
You’ve got to be willing to SUIT UP and pursue your goals with ABANDON, woman.
Now, suiting up for ALL of us can look different.
I don’t like “busy.”
When I find myself “busy” I fix it.
For one of my best friends, she LOVES busy.
I am more for the DELIBERATE hustle.
BUT regardless of your personal preferences or comfort zone, if you WANT something different you’ve GOT to be willing to DO and BE something different.
(Don’t shoot the messenger. You know it’s true.)
So, here’s what is next.
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with aligned action.
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